I love Fridays! This is when I discuss how to learn elegance in our every day, over 50 lives, and today I am going to continue introducing you to women who live and exude elegance so well and, therefore, make excellent role models for the rest of us. So, meet my friend, Janice Riggs, founder of The Vivienne Files.
I began to learn from Janice on her blog in my early days of blogging, but when she learned that I was headed to Chicago with my husband, she offered to be a gracious, elegant hostess for an evening and I became even more of a fan and a friend. We had a great time and she introduced me to her Chicago that she loves. Here is how our recent conversation went….
MORE ABOUT JANICE
- Please tell us about you…
I live in Chicago, where I’ve lived for over 30 years – except for a year in Dublin Ireland. I’m sixty, although I still feel like I’m either 35, or maybe 90…
As soon as we can manage it, my husband and I are retiring to Ireland. The pandemic has thrown a wrench the size of Idaho into these plans, but they’re still going to happen! My husband is an Irish citizen, so we will be allowed into the country, although we might have to quarantine.
- How did the Vivienne Files happen…and how has It evolved?
The Vivienne Files started on a Yahoo chat group called Je Ne Sais Quoi… It was a group of women who love all things French – especially Parisian! At that time, I was working in advertising, running an international research project, and so I traveled to Paris a LOT. When questions would come up in the group about things that Paris women would (or wouldn’t) do, I would often be asked to do some research!
And then I briefly became acquainted with a woman who worked at my “regular” Paris hotel – she was my physical opposite, but we had very similar tastes in clothes. She taught me much…
Of course, her name was Vivienne!
Over the course of a year or two, I wrote occasion long responses to questions that were asked in the group. I didn’t know at the time, but some of the other members were saving all these responses in a Word Document which they very cleverly named “The Vivienne Files.”
About 7 or 8 years after that, I was goofing off one day and I ran across a long quote from those original Vivienne Files, on someone’s blog. (I truly can’t remember who was quoting it…) I realized that all those things that I had learned still had relevance and could be built upon…
Next day I bought up the domain and started writing!
3. Do you have any new goals for the blog or for you that you would be willing to share?
I’ve been saying for years that I want to write a book; I’m really stuck because my work is so visually focused, and that means that I will need an illustrator! I’m thinking seriously about putting together a short book that focuses on the Weekly Timeless Wardrobe (a series that I’ve been writing for 52 weeks – it just finished!)
Also, I would love to attract millions more readers, but I’m not sure how that happens! I need an agent…
4. Do you believe that any woman can learn elegance?
Absolutely! The key is to learn to listen to yourself, and not to others. If you can manage to dress yourself AS YOURSELF, and not in some costume that’s been foisted off on you by the “fashion” powers that be, you’re most of the way there.
And discipline is key – buy less but buy better. Wear what you own more often. Don’t worry about being seen in the same outfit twice in a week. All those old rules that used to control us will never help us be elegant….
5. What does the word elegance mean to you?
Appropriate and attractive, for both the woman and the occasion. Not overdone – less is more, and simple is better than complicated. The best possible items you can find, cared for meticulously…. Washed, ironed, polished, repaired, maintained…
Flawlessly groomed. Excellent posture. A smile, a warm expression, genuine kindness.
6. In our new more casual, over 50 lives, what is your best advice for how we should build our wardrobes.
Introspection! A long, hard look at your body, your preferences, your activities, your budget. Most women don’t have a budget for their clothing and accessories, nor do they have a true shopping list or plan for what they want to buy. You wouldn’t buy groceries without at least some idea of what you’re going to do with them; you shouldn’t buy clothing for which you don’t have a plan either!
And dreaming. What would you wear if money were no object? Would that be appropriate for your life? Is there a way to replicate that dream so that it works for your life?
INSPIRATION FROM OTHERS
I agree with Janice that the key is to “listen to ourselves and not to others”, however, I have learned so much in the last 10 years from other women and it has helped me to make important decisions about my own style. I still am uniquely-Pamela (with my colors, prints, and accessories) but it helped to have “instructors” like Janice to inspire me in many ways. This is why I desire for you to meet and know some of the women who I believe are inspiring others to learn elegant lifestyles.
When I first began my reinvention journey, it was the same as going to school…I read, actually took an online course, and then listened to instructors like Janice. Remember, she portrays elegance not only with her style, but also with her graciousness and joy. I believe the inside is more about elegance than anything!
I believe you will enjoy learning from her as well! I have two slideshows for you today…one is from the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale, and the other includes fun finds from our favorite retailers! Have fun with all of this “elegant” information and make sure you…………………….
NORDSTROM ANNIVERSARY SALE
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