Optimistic Aging: Inspiration Is Powerful

I AM EDITING AND RE-POSTING THIS FROM MARCH.  I BELIEVE IT TIES IN NICELY WITHY
YESTERDAY’S POST. 

AND ALSO, I MUST BEGIN BY THANKING ALL THOSE WHO HAVE SERVED IN DEFENSE OF OUR COUNTRY.

YOU INSPIRE OTHERS EVERY DAY!

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Happy Wednesday, friends!  Today, I want to initiate a discussion on Optimistic Aging: Inspiration is Powerful.

At the ripe age of 73, I can confidently say that inspiration is powerful and a tool God uses in my life to keep me moving and experience aging with optimism.

When I began this blog 17 years ago, my mission was to inspire you to look and feel your best every day; however, I am just now realizing how important it is for all of us to be inspired daily in order to face life with a smile.

As we discuss the topic of inspiration as a key part of optimistic aging, I ask that you deeply ponder..what inspires you each and every day.

The official definition of inspiration is:  the process of being mentally stimulated to do or feel something.  Also, something that makes someone want to do something or that gives someone an idea about what to do or create.

It is that mental stimulation that results in optimistic aging.

So, let’s begin with what brought me back to this topic.

OPTIMISTIC AGING: INSPIRATION IS POWERFUL: JOANNA GAINES

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Quiet simply, I received the Spring 2026 Magnolia Journal…and the theme is Let Inspiration Settle In.

In her introductory editor’s letter, Joanna Gaines writes this:

I think inspiration has something valuable to offer each of us. When we’re inspired – when we feel motivated and excited for something we care about, or we can see problems turn into pathways – we move to action.  Sometimes inspiration is out there and takes work to find.  Sometimes it settles in spontaneously, and our only job is to grab hold and pull it close.  As our team explored this idea as a theme,  we crafted our own definition, believing that inspiration is to be sought after, and that it is the search for unique experiences that spark something deep within us.

Those searches, in my estimation, should not stop as we age…but rather intensify.  To experience optimistic aging, we should all be seeking inspiration….daily….and this is something I love to do.

OPTIMISTIC AGING: INSPIRATION IS POWERFUL: WHAT INSPIRES ME #1

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When I moved to a much smaller town, someone said to me that I would dry up because of lack of inspiration.

Au contraire….I believe I have been inspired even more in this “smaller town.”

First, due to the calibre of inspirational women I have met here and they inspire me every time I am around them.

Women like Ivy.  I first introduced you to Ivy in this post: PURPOSE DRIVEN BRAND FOR STYLE.

She is a strong, kind, joyful woman who is a wife, mother, educator, professional, and entrepreneur of a non-profit to help support and feed families in her native Africa.

This is truly an amazing woman who inspires me to do more each time I am around her.  And her style is impeccable…follow her on Instagram.

We share a love of service and of nature and the inspiration that is blooming all around us.

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Meet Emma.  Another incredible talent who also inspires me.

She is a diligent wife and mother…and her creations are lovely.  She can take an old quilt and do amazing things with it.

I mention diligence because with Emma and Ivy they work so hard and their days are full…that is optimistic aging to me…when my days are full.

You can also find Emma with her company Adiel Designs on Instagram.

There have been so many women in my new community who have inspired me with a desire to be part of a community and serve others in different ways.

These women offer a personal touch that is difficult to find in the big city….and that inspires me.

What women inspire you the most. Tell us about them and how they keep you inspired?

OPTIMISTIC AGING: INSPIRATION IS POWERFUL: WHAT INSPIRES ME #2

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I love the creativity in fashion as much as I love the creativity in an art museum.  I always have.

Beautiful fashion displays inspire me with ideas….to be bold…and to seek other ways to create the look.

There is no way I could afford clothing from ETRO, but this display inspired me so much years ago, that I have kept the image for along time with hopes to recreate it.

I never really did, but you never know…I may someday be able to wear something similar.

And I was inspired to seek toppers and jackets that made a statement of my style adjectives in my wardrobe.

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Here is another display in my fashion inspiration folder.

Of course, the colors are not me…but I love the look and the style.

Displays like this inspired me to wear pants with prints…another look I have enjoyed wearing.

When I go “shopping,” it is often to seek inspiration and to enjoy the beauty of fashion displays.

As well as being inspired by fashion displays, I am also inspired by how other women dress.

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I have so many pictures of this lovely lady, Xitlait, who I first met years ago when she was public relations manager at the San Antonio Neiman Marcus.

Her style always inspired me, so I took pictures every time I saw her wearing a stylish look that I loved.  She is a master stylist with accessories.

Again, I could not afford the brands that she wears, but I could always look for similar ways to style the more affordable brands.

She is kind and strong as the the other women who inspire me.  She once wrote these words:

Stop worrying about other people understanding you. Get in touch with yourself instead. Focus on what makes you happy, what makes your soul feel at peace.  You are your biggest commitment, so start to love your flaws, your awkwardness,  your weirdness, your intensity, your vulnerability,  your everything.  Life becomes so much more fulfilling when you are just simply yourself. The world keeps spinning whether people understand you or not.  So why not make this next trip around the sun about you.

Xitlait would go on to leave Neiman Marcus and create her own company to serve her community.  And I find that on Instagram, her style continues to inspire me.

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I have also shared with you that lately I am very inspired by Elyce Arons of Frances Valentine.

I have a collection of screen shots from her personal Instagram that I use as inspiration for what I wear.

She has directly impacted outfits I am currently wearing and helped me step up my casual style in fun ways that are more me.

What women are inspiring your style the most these days?

I am also inspired by nature and art and books.  But, we will discuss those another day.

Just typing this post, inspires me to get back to my home design, and continue to work on where we live.  (It is a fun work in progress!)

I am also inspired to get out and meet more people and look for more ways to be a part of this new community.  My friend, Addie, inspired me to do this more.

Inspiration breeds movement.

OPTIMISTIC AGING: INSPIRATION IS POWERFUL: THAT YOUTHFUL GLOW

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When we lean into our points of inspiration, no matter our ages, then we are experiencing a youthful glow that comes from inside.

Magnolia Journal says:  

And then, move from reflection to action. Do, go, seek. What new, fresh, untapped inspiration might be waiting for you with just a change of posture or movement? Revisit the kinds of places that once captivated you; woodlands, carnivals, back country roads, tucked-away shops, or pulsating cities.  GET OUT THERE WITH EMPTY HANDS AND A CURIOUS HEART.  Sketch instead of type. Run in the rain. Play old albums. Get back on a horse. Put on your apron again.

The magazine conclusion is: “You have a mind, a body, and an extraordinary heart that’s just waiting to be plugged in and turned bright.”

I have found that when I focus on inspiration more than the challenges I face from aging, that I feel younger and happier.

I cannot wipe away my wrinkles, or fix a ripped up ear, or bring back the amputated toe….but I can choose not to lament over them or allow them to ruin my day or cause me to feel “old” and “done.”

As the song says…the is still a lot of living to do.

I hope you have enjoyed this updated post on Optimistic Aging: Inspiration is Powerful.

Please join in and tell us…what is inspiring you right now?  How are you acting on your inspiration? What turns on your lights inside?  I would love to know your answers. Your previous comments may appear…but please give us an update.

Thank you for being here…I hope to see you tomorrow…until then….

BE THANKFUL & KEEP SMILING!

By Pamela Lutrell

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21 Comments

  1. As an educator, I’m inspired by learning. Gathering facts and ideas, reflecting, discussions, deciding, doing something with confidence that I have acquired the necessary info and am on my way to gaining expertise. We grow that way, always. I remember that lovely woman you showed us from Neiman Marcus … such incredible accessories.

  2. Oh,my! I’m so inspired by Emma’s creativity with quilts! I get over-heated easily, but may give the vest a try (or replacing sleeves on a denim jacket, per her instagram). Thank you for the reminder about finding inspiration in all kinds of places.

  3. I picked up golf at 68 and now at 74 it has been my inspiration for so many reasons including social, fitness and movement. Husband and I moved cross country to be closer to family; he was always a golfer. I never had the interest or time what with working, kids, house etc. When we moved into this community on 2 golf courses I figured I should learn the sport to get to know people and to get some exercise. Golf inspires me to get out of bed each morning, hit the driving range or the course, get some exercise and try, try, try to improve!

  4. Thanks for sharing your inspiration, Linda…and Xitlait still inspires me with her style and creativity with accessories!

  5. She is amazing! One day I am going to own one of her quilted coat designs…the way she designs the styles is also very flattering. I just added one of her necklaces to my jewelry.

  6. Good for you, Linda! I believe if I had moved into such a community, I would also want to learn golf. I am certain you will inspire others with this decision.

  7. I’m reminded by another woman’s words of wisdom about moving more as we age: “ Whoever said you had to be good at yoga to enjoy and benefit from yoga?”
    I was concerned 13 years ago- that I’d be the worst woman in class- stiff and sore?
    Who would care? It’s not a competition. I now live it!
    Loving your message!

  8. Wonderful examples of creative women today. One of my favorite quotes is from Pablo Picasso: “Inspiration exists, but it has to find you working”. Creativity is not a passive process. Ideas come through the act of doing. Nature inspires my art and of course it requires getting out the door and really opening my eyes my surrounding. Often I will see something that gives me a idea of where to start but more often the inspiration for the next step or the next piece comes while actually I’m working on a piece.

  9. What a wonderful post today, Pam! I have recently started a fitness program at our local community college to focus on strength training and to work on improved fitness, so I have been feeling very inspired! I want to maintain good physical health as I age and as I head into retirement. Dressing nicely and stylishly is important to me (and one of the things I enjoy about working full-time), so I am inspired by the creative women you’ve shown today. I’ll have to see if I can get a copy of Magnolia Journal … it looks so interesting. Thank you.

  10. I needed to read this today. I have been very uninspired lately. It could be that winter just keeps dragging on! But reading this has helped. I like what Beth said about fitness. I think that should be my inspiration. I need to get healthier because by just doing that I should feel better.

  11. As a former English teacher, I have always felt (and taught) that lifelong learning is a mindset and a path to satisfaction with one’s life, whether it be formal or informal. Curiosity can be found in nature, avid reading, sports, the arts, personal interests, etc. It keeps one alive and thinking. Being open to new ideas keeps us relevant and interesting, as does our seeking the desire to grow. Being interactive with strangers or new acquaintances presents a chance to open new doors. I know someone who says she has enough friends. Geez. I think if all the people in my life that weren’t here 10 years ago and I could never give them up.
    Xitlait is stunning. Inspiration plus, as are you and the women here.

  12. I looked up Adiel Designs on Etsy and she’s not there – or not selling anymore. No activity since last summer. Too bad as I am interested in her jewelry!

  13. Inspiration for me comes in so many forms: vintage homes and gardens, travel articles and t.v. programs (like Rick Steves, or even the little blurb from Viking on PBS), a dear friend who is a wonderful artist and lured me into pottery making, reading a great recipe or browsing a culinary shop, and of course music, beautiful music. Really, I feel inspired by so much. Each new day holds the promise of something wonderful, and that is inspiration itself.

  14. Thank you, Deborah. You have also inspired me in many different ways…especially to share your ideas and what you learn.

  15. And Emma would be interested to speak with you! Just go to her Instagram Account and message her. Her jewelry is lovely.

  16. I agree that each new day holds new promise…new gifts…and new inspiration, Connie…and how I wish I had a new friend where I live now that would lure me into similar things.

  17. I heard a line in a movie that was something like this: “Other people are not going to understand your journey, but that’s okay. It’s not theirs to understand. It’s okay to chase your own happiness.” Inspiration is very personal, but we always need to keep looking for it. Thank you for inspiring us today.

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