Over 50: Dare to be memorable

Over 50: Dare to be memorable

Happy Thursday, everyone!  Today I would like to encourage all ladies over 50 to dare to be memorable.

Today, I invite you into my home as I work on my Christmas decorating…and to make a point….stick with me until the end.

Readers often comment that they do not dare to be memorable and that is why they avoid certain styles.

But, I would like to encourage all of you over 50 to dare to be memorable and give you some points to think about.

Consider these ideas….

DARE TO BE MEMORABLE – POINT #1

Over 50: Dare to be memorable

My first point on how we dare to be memorable begins with our insides…our warm hearts.

We should all desire to be remembered in this life and the next for kindness, joy, hospitality, servant’s heart, and laughter.

Those are the traits of confident , strong, dignified women.

It is an honor for anyone to be remembered for their character on the inside.

Next, a confident woman knows what she wants to speak with her outside style and that bold confidence helps her dare to be memorable.

DARE TO BE MEMORABLE – POINT #2

Over 50: dare to be memorable

My second point is to acknowledge that life is short and we pass this way once.

I do not want to shrink in the background over 50, but more than ever dare to be memorable.

It does not bother me at all if anyone remembers me as that woman who always looked vibrant, fun and creative.

Or to be remembered as the one who stood out wearing a particular garment (she often wore that amazing kimono) or for accessories.

I believe when we wear pieces we are confident wearing and those pieces speak what we want to say about us….that we are radiant…and that is a great memory.

Over 50: dare to be memorable

Let me be clear, I am not advocating for you to dress like me or wear clothing that I call out-loud clothes.

You can be memorable fondly in classic, Jackie O, great style.  Think of how we remember Jackie or Audrey Hepburn.

The key is to decide what you want to say about you with your wardrobe and then dare to wear it.

If you are someone, like me who loves a little out-loud fashion and loves accessories, do not stay away from them because they might be memorable.

I want all of my wardrobe to boldly speak that I am creative, polished, approachable, joyful and current.

In fact, dare to be memorable…own it.

DARE TO BE MEMORABLE – AT HOME

Over 50: Dare to be memorable

As I said, when I was decorating the house for Christmas and thinking of this post, I smiled and believe that it relates.

I dare to be memorable with my Christmas decorating, but by my family alone.

The decorations are almost always the same year to year…but I am building traditions, family history, and legacies with Christmas.

I am not decorating for anyone else…not Instagram, Facebook…no one else, but for my family and our heritage.

Over 50: Dare to be memorable

My decorations are founded on Nativity Scenes, a snowman collection, vintage Santas, decorations handed down through the family and lots of trees, big and small.

And, of course…the word JOY!

The tree at the top is the “real” tree and in our front room is the tall Balsam Hill tree I was gifted a few years ago.

I always smile when a family member comments on their excitement to see a particular decoration.  Somehow it gives them peace to know how it will look when they arrive.

Well, the way you keep and present yourself can also portray that type of peace.  You become someone that people remember and rely on for confidence and strength.

I want to encourage all of you to not shrink from being someone memorable or wearing something memorable…but over 50? Dare to be Memorable.

Be Bold!

Sometimes it means that you dress nicer than others at the meeting, or at church, or at the luncheon.  Stand out with style.

 

Dare to be memorable

Tux is loving the Christmas tree this year.

I often find him laying beside it or even staring at it.

Makes me smile!

The memorable sweatshirt I am wearing at the top today’s post was a boutique find, and the Foxcroft jeans have been in my wardrobe for awhile…I am comfy at home in my Jambu Wilma Slip-ons – Now at Macy’s!

Here are a few more items I found at Macy’s…my feet are so happy since I discovered Jambu.

Please feel free to share any thoughts you have on this topic…just do not forget point #2….let’s have fun, look great,  and dare to be memorable for it!

KEEP SMILING!!

By Pamela Lutrell

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Dare to be memorable

20 Comments

  1. So true. While I am not comfortable in out-loud clothing, I honestly want to be memorable for heart characteristics. I want to reflect the Light that’s inside. That’s the memorable that I desire. Like you, my decor is family-oriented and what I have used for years. On my tree you’ll find the paper ornaments my children made in Sunday school along with what I’ve collected over the years. They love it and I love it. It’s meaningful to my family and that’s the “memorable” that I’m after. With fashion, I am that ‘classic’, who may not stand out in clothing, but my hope is that I will be remembered for loving well and shining that Light! Love the picture of little Tux by the tree! When I’m with Moose, I often think what the situation would be if that Christmas tree was out in the yard! And yet when they brought it in the house, he completely ignores it! I love pictures of pets by the trees! Thank you for the reminder to always be memorable in our own unique way!

  2. For us the Christmas season decor translates To lots of white twinkling lights against greenery( Love the natural piney scent) And beautiful poinsettias. I have snowmen and gnomes all over too! We keep it Christmasy, but simple —meaningful too!
    I tend to have a pan of sliced oranges, cloves and any other warming spices simmering on the stove too! Love this!

  3. You must be talking to me, my Friend, and I hear you loud and clear! You have hit several of the needed notes for me to wear several beautiful items I have bought but not worn. At 76 I’m certainly not assured of having many events to which I can wear some of my more memorable items, but you’ve given me some great thoughts as to why I’m not being true to myself. I want people to remember me as being joyful, and confident, even if I’m wearing “ THAT” item often. Your tree and house decorations are so beautiful and your special touches evident. Thank you for pushing me out of my box!

  4. I do not think you will regret wearing those special pieces, Celia! You may just discover a new joy outside of the box! Have fun with it!

  5. My Christmas tree consists mostly of ornaments we have found on our travels, starting with our honeymoon. Because we have been married for 44 years, we have quite a collection. They are not always expensive … my newest one, from our cruise, is an origami eagle made by, and gifted to me by, our Indonesian waiter. I started my son on the tradition when he was small, and when he left home, he had a foundation for his own tree. I used to wear memorable outfits, but the last few years, I’ve decided I would like to pare down my wardrobe, and now let my creative side speak with the bold, gallery style beaded jewelry I make, and other accessories. I don’t mind standing out in a crowd, and as a larger woman, I want my wardrobe to tell the world I’m confident and enjoying fashion despite my size and age.

  6. I love your message today Pam, and Tux beside the tree. Lovely! My husband and I picked our tree just yesterday, from a little 4-H lot. I liked the tall, skinny tree this time, a departure from our usual fat, round trees. This way it fit just right next to the piano, and my first student in the afternoon had her eyes open wide as she remarked how beautiful it was. Sweet kiddo, it only had a single strand of white lights at that point. Not a bobble or ball or even a skirt. As I sat in my chair next to her and she began to play, her Simple Gifts, Snowflake, and even the jaunty Jingle Bells, I felt such a peace and gratitude, the tree lights gently illuminating her from the other side.

  7. Thank you, Connie…I always look forward to your comments because they draw me into the moment. I love that you are a piano teacher. I sold my piano to a music teacher when we reached a point that there was no place to put it with our growing family. I miss it and there are many times I wish I had it, but it does give me joy and peace to know it is with a teacher like you.

  8. What a great column! Bold and memorable are attributes we can all embrace. My duaghter and I decorate the tree together and play Chrristmas music. It’s a great tradition. I also decorate with nutcrackers, other ornaments and Christmas items, as well as with plants (cyclamen and poinsettia mainly) and foraged pine and berries, and pinecones. I even got my husband to say that having a red “Holly, Jolly” towel in teh bathrroom was cheerful. I know that my children will rememberr the holiday and joy. Maybe this is the year, I will get personally bold and purchase a vibrant, sequiny top. Thank you for the encouragement!

  9. Our Christmas tree means memories of our child growing up. The ornaments are little treasures that mark his journey from a toddler to a young man. It’s the spirit of Christmas through the eyes of a child. We treasure these things for the joy they brought him every year at this special time.

    As for me, I needed some sparkle this year, and that I will!

  10. What a pretty tree. It’s nice to see you dress in a fun and creative way. I say you “Go Girl.”

  11. You show us such lovely vibrant clothes that I love. You have inspired me to step outside my comfort zone and stop fading into the background. I purchased the velvet trimmed burnout kimono from Chico’s last holiday season. I LOVE it but never wore it because I didn’t feel comfortable in it. I felt like I was “dressing” up in something I was not. LOL But, I got it out and wore it for Thanksgiving day and again, just this week, to a Christmas party for our ladies group at church. I felt confident wearing this last time! As you stated above, I was a dressed a little fancier than most at the event, but I’m sure they’ll all remember me! LOL I felt confident in my style and thus had fun! Thank you for being so encouraging!

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